As blacks after a death of one's wife or husband, you have to mourn or grieve your partner's death. The manner in which you do it varies from culture to culture. Even after the mourning period that is set if set is over if you move on you are perceived as immoral, especially women whilst men are applauded.
When is the perfect time as a black person to move on after the death of a partner?
I don't think there's a perfect time to mourn. Death on it's own it's just a lot. You would think you are over it after a year then 5 years later it hits you like it just happened yesterday . I don't think people should be timed but rather, blacks need to allow individuals to grieve however way they want.
ReplyDeleteToo deep. People undermine grief!
ReplyDeleteI always say, you can move on even as soon as yesterday. A dead person is dead, they'll never come back, why must we suffer for somebody who is never coming back?
ReplyDeleteThere is no perfect time to move on. Even if the person is not coming back, fact that you shared some time with them might take a while for one to heal to a point of moving on while others don't move on at all
ReplyDeleteI'm my opinion I believe moving on just has to do with healing, if you believe you have went through all the process of hurt and dealt with them accordingly then one can move on...after all, life goes on
ReplyDeleteI can say one may move on when they feel they are ready because they are humans and have feelings and moving on quickly will help heal promptly.
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