As black people there are values and norms that we live by , and some of them are ridiculous and unreasonable. so I want discuss of how the values and norms of growing up in a black household are sometimes reasonable and unfair from the issues of marriage, child disciplinary, black tax everything that has to do with being black.
Now let's talk to the issue of reprimanding or disciplinary. Black folks have their way of disciplinary and oh boy it's not a walk in the candy store. What is that one thing that you can never say or do when a black parent is reprimanding you?
Well...I've sometimes wanted to tell my father to grow up but I knew I'd definitely get a bad sjambok by the evening😔for that...
ReplyDeleteWe need to train our parents how to treat us. With respect. They need to know what hurts and and what doesn't. They need to know that sometimes tough love isn't the right way to raise a child. Let's be the better generation
ReplyDeleteYoh I'm glad you brought this up, as a black child, you should know that you can never ever say your parents are lying. 😂😂
ReplyDeleteMany black parents hit to keep their kids from “turning out bad,” it is clearly not working because children suffer negative outcomes in educational achievement
ReplyDeleteI dont even think we are allowed to speak at all during the process of them disciplining you as the child😂
ReplyDeleteSometimes you'd hear that a parent is accusing you and saying she's crazy or lying would be your immediate death. How ridiculous!
ReplyDeleteWell, answering your question, I personally do not or cannot talk back or even try to reason because if I do so, I'll be seen disrespect.
ReplyDeleteLet's allow sanity to prevail. Our parents are the roots of our depression. You dare answer back when being reprimanded by mine the next thing you'll see are stars blinking in your eye!!
ReplyDeleteThere's literally no way to bark lack of intellectuality on your kids. Little patience goes a long way to help them
ReplyDeleteTalking back at a black parent is a wrong thing a black could can never do but I believe if we sit our parent down and let them know how we feel about their household rules, they'll get some sense that we are no more kids. You train someone on how they should treat you.
ReplyDeleteI would always want to tell them "why don't just leave me alone" but I'd never say it because if I did I'd be dead by now, because I feel like if you reprimand a person you have to say it once and they'll understand rather than repeating one thing time and again
ReplyDeleteYou can NEVER say they are wrong, even when they are truly wrong 😢 💔
ReplyDeleteYou can never talk back or answer them, even if they be asking you to answer for yourself.
ReplyDeleteTelling a parent not to shout at you when he/ she is angry is not a child's play
ReplyDeleteTalking back or answering them is considered disrespect.. I mean I should answer so that you can shout at me based on what is true right but not our parents and its annoying honestly but Ey we can never tell them that
ReplyDeleteParents are never wrong ey💔 especially in a black household
ReplyDeleteThis is so true
ReplyDeleteI really agree
ReplyDeleteBlack parents do not want people ho talk back at them😂😂when they reprimand you, you talk back at them, you leave their house. Simple.
ReplyDeleteIf you wanted my mom to take your side, you needed to report first; my siblings new this and every time we fought they would report first & mom wouldn't buy my side of the story. I've always wanted to tell her that she's wronged me but couldn't bring myself to confess as it meant more beating for being rebellious.
ReplyDeleteBeing black is difficult 😂🙌when being diciplined, you answer trying make her aware of why did what you did. You are a very disrespectful child you talk back at your elders and then you keep your mouth shut, " ohh I'm talking to you and you are ignoring me" parents just don't know what they want from us. That's it
ReplyDeleteMaking an argument or disagreement with a black parent, it is the same as adding fuel to the fire.
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